Wedding DJ Storytime
Send us a message Cold sparks that can literally scorch carpet, a bride who wants the party to go explicit on command, and a viral custom dance edit that suddenly turns into 20 strangers asking for the file. That’s the kind of real-world wedding DJ life we’re unpacking, with the wins, the awkward parts, and the decisions that affect your reputation and revenue. We start with updates from our world: Patreon shoutouts, DJ Collective reminders, Recharge Circles deadlines, and why we’re ex...
Cold sparks that can literally scorch carpet, a bride who wants the party to go explicit on command, and a viral custom dance edit that suddenly turns into 20 strangers asking for the file. That’s the kind of real-world wedding DJ life we’re unpacking, with the wins, the awkward parts, and the decisions that affect your reputation and revenue.
We start with updates from our world: Patreon shoutouts, DJ Collective reminders, Recharge Circles deadlines, and why we’re excited to hear more tactical lighting solutions for working DJs who aren’t trying to spend a fortune. From there, we detour through pop culture because it connects back to our craft: when performance looks lazy or “off,” the internet notices fast, and wedding guests do too. Authentic energy and clean presentation matter more than the gear list.
Then we go deep on weddings. Joe breaks down an “explicit wedding” that was actually fun because expectations were clear and the room shifted at the right time. Brian shares a TikTok-influenced wedding full of specific decade music requests, an AI-generated welcome song, a photo dash, and the return of the garter removal moment. The biggest lesson comes from cold sparks indoors: testing issues, fire risk, refund friction, and why subcontracting special effects can protect your headspace and your liability. We also share practical DJ tools like EsStart for guest photos, requests, and a smarter review capture flow that can drive more public reviews.
If you care about wedding DJ playlists, event pacing, DJ business strategy, and protecting your creative edge, you’ll get plenty to steal here. Subscribe, share this with a DJ friend, and leave a review with the biggest “never again” request you’ve had to handle.
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00:00 - Welcome And Patreon Shoutouts
03:35 - DJ Collective Updates And Lighting Talk
07:05 - Timberland Touring Debate
12:15 - Usher Double Rumor Breakdown
14:40 - Off The Record Rhythm Challenge
16:20 - The Explicit Wedding Playlist Switch
25:30 - TikTok Bride Requests And AI Welcome Song
32:55 - Photo Dash Garter Toss And Cold Sparks Risk
39:20 - Capturing Reviews With S-Start
41:40 - Fall Rotation Picks And Dance Floor Weapons
46:35 - Breathable Suit Find And Custom Edit Dilemma
Welcome And Patreon Shoutouts
SPEAKER_06What's up, guys? Welcome back to Beyond the DJ Booth Podcast. I am Joe Bund. That right there is Brian B, and um we're gonna keep it rolling. Um happy uh happy podcast day. Happy Podcast Day. Batch recording. Batch recording. A nice, a nice batch of pods today. I'm thinking it's gonna be good.
SPEAKER_01Happy 909. Happy 909.
SPEAKER_06Today this drops. 0909.
SPEAKER_01You know what that is?
SPEAKER_06No.
SPEAKER_01Jump machine.
SPEAKER_06Oh, you're right. It is true. 909. Rolling 909. 808. So good. Yeah, what's up, buddy? How are you? What do we have? And uh what we got. What do we usually start with? We usually talk about people that are kind, generous, wholesome humans that have joined the Patreon. They want to push the boundaries and make their business better and maybe get some good edits along the way. Let me hit announce the first one. Go on.
SPEAKER_04I feel like I gotta make it easy for myself. Um, Jake Boone. Jake Boone. Uh Commerce Township, Michigan. You ever been there? No, can't say I have. Not Commerce Township. I've been to Michigan. You've been to Detroit?
SPEAKER_06Uh yeah, I have been to Detroit. Detroit's coy.
SPEAKER_04I thought Detroit was cool. I I went downtown where the casinos were.
SPEAKER_06I thought people made it sound like it was gonna be like Beirut in like 88 or something. Like it was not. Yeah, no, I didn't think so either. I thought it was super cool town. Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Anyway.
SPEAKER_06Uh Root shout out Ruben Camarino. DJ Roo. I know DJ Route. Or is it Ruey? No, it's Rue, I think. Rue. Okay.
SPEAKER_04Alpine California. Gotta be Northern California. You ever been there? Doesn't sound familiar. Okay. Doesn't sound familiar. Must be northern. Shout out. We got another DJ C announcement, probably one that you're not aware of. I did not have a clue this was happening. Again. Just having to make moves because we were uh against the gun here. So um if you're not familiar with another podcast that's out there, I'm gonna go ahead and give them their flowers. You're gonna give them some give them a shout out? Lights at full podcast done by Brent Schmidt and Brian Smith. Good dudes. Good dudes. Yep. They are gonna be not doing a podcast, but they are gonna kind of expouse, if you will. Is that a word? Is it? I feel like it is.
SPEAKER_06I don't know. What do you want it to mean?
SPEAKER_04What are you trying to make it mean?
SPEAKER_09Pontificate.
SPEAKER_04Okay, that's a word. On what their podcast is kind of about, which is like really tactical lighting solutions. We haven't talked lighting at the DJ Collective in a long time. I don't think we have either. Uh so this is stuff that you know you don't have to be spending a gazillion dollars or spending a little dollars. This is kind of for anybody in the mix, mainly for the mids.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Lighting solution stuff. And I feel like it's good because we need to have that in an industry a little. I'm terrible at lighting. This is like my Achilles heel. My Achilles heel is this. Yeah, I think it is. Top three worst I know. Top three. Um, but anyways, uh, I'm excited to have them in. Yeah, I love these guys. So they're gonna be speaking for us. Oh, yeah. So if you don't have a ticket yet, you still got time. The DJ CollectiveOfficial.com. And as we spoke about last week, we also have the deadline coming up on the recharge circles. So if you want to submit a topic, you got one week. One week to submit those. If
DJ Collective Updates And Lighting Talk
SPEAKER_04you're looking for the link to do so, you got to be an attendee to get that. You can't just submit topics if you're not gonna be there.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, you gotta you gotta pay for a ticket and then you can put in a topic that is burning, bothering you, has never been answered at a conference. Yeah, we're gonna tackle it. There we go.
SPEAKER_04Pop culture minute. Let's move into it. Um, dude, did you see the the Timberland is touring?
SPEAKER_07Man, this is stupid. I I don't again, man, why would he do this? So he's doing his thing. Have you seen it?
SPEAKER_04This is so stupid. I mean, he's not gonna forget his lines for sure.
SPEAKER_02It's like is Nellie Fatano there? No, but she's on tour two, right? What is he doing?
SPEAKER_04Crazy.
SPEAKER_02Why I mean, could have got her.
SPEAKER_04I mean, you pay a ticket to go to that. I don't know, man.
SPEAKER_06I don't I think this is shot out of context. You think? Yeah, I think it's some festival or like or I don't know, man. I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I mean, he's he's goaded, obviously. Dude, don't I'm putting him top three all day. Saquon knows I love this dude. He's goaded, he will always be goaded. I just there's another way to do this show than that. Yeah, I I would rather just see him DJ, like like even if he doesn't know how to DJ. Like Saquon knows the basics of DJing, like when he does a show with his crew, yeah, he still has like a controller Serato setup and he can at least drop the tracks and not just sit there and go, yeah. Like, yeah, even if it's just drop the track and like the crowd gets hype or whatever and be like, oh, okay, and then brrrrrr and go, well, you what about this one? Y'all forgot about this. Like, he has a hundred fucking bangers.
SPEAKER_04Right.
SPEAKER_06So there's a different way, even if this is a Timberland show, which I don't think it is, I think it's either some sort of a festival, right? Showcase, it could even be like IBM hired him for like there's another way to do this, yeah, not this way. Yeah, this is terrible. You don't want to go viral viral for this, right? Um, man, speaking of pop culture moments, did you see the whole Usher thing where people were like at MetLife, you know, which is 80,000 people for the Usher and Chris Brown thing, and they said that he subbed in a a double. For him? Yeah. You didn't see any of that? No, for him to sing, dude. For to do a good portion of the concert. Wow. Why?
SPEAKER_04I use it like Martha Reeves.
SPEAKER_06Listen, man, I don't I I don't know that I'm buying it. The more it broke on the day that me and Saquon were together doing a show out of town, and he and I were both, we were in the same hotel room, like on our phones, like going through the pictures, like, you know, talking about it and stuff, and like different videos and stuff. I was like, that ain't Usher. But then like the professional pictures came out, and I was like, Yeah, that's Usher. But like, I think people forget that he's been on tour for a long time now, and it's he's playing every night, it's 100 degrees, probably. Yeah, I think he's lost weight, and his face looked very gaunt.
Timberland Touring Debate
SPEAKER_06Oh, got it. Like he his facial structure. He's on the shot. I might be on the zen. He could be on the on the GLP ones. Could be. I don't know, man, but I I just don't, I don't, I don't think I buy it, man. Because it's different, like if he wasn't playing in stadiums with literally football-sized um video screen. Right, right, right. Like maybe you could get away with it. Right. Because people said he did it in Vegas before, too. Oh, wow. Well, that place is small. I've seen shows at that theater. I know I can't see him. Especially in a stadium tour, like to put out a double. Yeah. I don't know. He he was like, y'all are wild. Like he actually responded. Wow. That was me. Like Wow.
SPEAKER_01He said, You can't clone this. Yeah. Right.
SPEAKER_07A lot of people were saying it won't usher. Anyway.
SPEAKER_04Well, with that, let's move into our favorite segment here.
SPEAKER_05Your favorite segment.
SPEAKER_04Can you find the one? All right.
SPEAKER_05Uh off the record, let me talk my sugar on the ice tea. They throw a shade while I'm sipping on this ice tea. Don't care if you hate on like me. You know why? Cause this is how I see. Record off the record, off the record, off the record. Say it with the chest. Got a microphone, check it. I'm gon' say what I want to say. It's right time to rant and ready. Get out the way.
SPEAKER_04Alright, so you're gonna need headphones for this. No bucket. No bucket. We are going to take that Nelly Fritato and Timberland track that we just played, and there are 12 in there. So this is kind of a give me. All you gotta do is stay in time. Okay. Until it gets to the chorus. So I'm gonna lead you in. Okay. Count in your head 12 of these as we do them. Let's just see if you can keep it keep it in time. You ready? Sure. That's one.
SPEAKER_07It was pretty good. My voice crack on the second one. Threw me off. I'll give it to you, man. I'll give it to you about it. I'll take it. I can't do it again. He's so talented. Oh my God. All right, let's hit story time. Jesus.
SPEAKER_06Oh man. So uh first all explicit wedding. Yeah. Yeah. Um last weekend.
SPEAKER_04So all it was cracked up to be.
SPEAKER_06I I I it was kind of lit. I mean, I got back from clearly it was younger crowd. It was. I got back from Australia on Thursday. You get back the same day you leave, by the way. Yeah. It is wild.
SPEAKER_04Wild. Because when you're I'm like, I remember being on the way back going, I feel like I was on a plane for like two days.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, me too. Feels like it. Yeah. And then you get back and it's the same time as when you left. I was like, this is nuts. So that was Thursday, not too late in the evening. Friday, I just tried to get my head, you know, back in the game, made sure all the gear was packed, ready to go. Saquon gets up Saturday morning, drives five hours to Hilton Head, and I fly through Charlotte, which was probably a dumb idea. And it turned out to be the right idea to go. You don't have a direct? No. Not the Hilton Head Airport. It's not the Savannah. It was literally a Hilton Head House and airport, which is smaller than that Newburn airport. Oh, yeah, yeah. I've been there. I've been to Hilton Head.
SPEAKER_04You have? Yeah, once. On a plane? Yeah. Yeah. Also got the one baggage, just the one. Absolutely. Yeah. It's just two gates. Yeah. And they only do it seasonally, by the way. Really? So, like, this is the season. That's why I thought they would have a direct. But I guess no.
SPEAKER_06No, no. I had to go through Charlotte. It worked out on the way there. Um, on the way back, there was a delay. And of course, Saquon gets home two or three hours before I did. And I'm like, he's like, I'm already back, dog. I'm like, I'm stuck in Charlotte. I'm furious at this point. My whole Sunday is cooked. But uh, our friend Juliana, who is a uh photographer, she was on a panel last year at PJC and goes out and shoots content when she's not booked to shoot weddings for us and my team. Uh, it was her wedding. She's seen all the standard stuff. She just, you know, she's young. What did she take one? 25?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, 25, 26, something like that.
SPEAKER_06Younger than he is. I mean, she's young and married a really cool dude named Colin. And just she was like, Look, I want my music at this my wedding, and play the play them as they were recorded. So did you have to download a ton of music? Bro, I probably spent a hundred dollars on getting songs because I've either deleted them or never had them. The pools had a lot of them.
Usher Double Rumor Breakdown
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Uh Randy gave me some, but I mean, I was downloading the explicit versions for hours. And then you trashed them all afterwards, or I I just labeled them all like, you know, parentheses explicit or uncomfortable. XXX. Yeah. And dude, it was fun, man. It was a lot of fun. Like it she basically what'd you start with? I I the a lot of the stuff was traditional wedding stuff to start with. And there were a lot of kids. When'd you turn the There was only what 75 people there? Less. Maybe less than that. And there were maybe five ten kids. She has sisters and brothers that had to be. They were there when they hold on. To be fair, I saw I watched the video back the other day. Let's say at eight, we begin dancing, open dancing. Eight-ish. So for an hour, let's call it 8 30. For an hour, the kids danced and stuff, had a good time. And it was wedding stuff. But at 9 30, she goes, I'm gonna go change my desk and then I'm my dress, I'm sorry, and then we're going full ratchet. I'm like, all right, let's go. And so at 9 30, I probably should have made an announcement. You didn't? I didn't know. Wow. I didn't, I didn't because you might pop that P? Do you hope I'm with pop that P? It was close. It was that it was French Montana. Snirko Loco was the first song, that Drake song.
SPEAKER_07Okay.
SPEAKER_06That's what she wanted to be reintroduced into the room to. And I had the feeling, based on the way I started seeing kids get ushered out, that she had told people when I re-enter, it's going into like an explicit adultery party. Yeah. Because the the those parents immediately got those kids out of there.
SPEAKER_04Which is probably good, anyways. I mean, not just uh timing, it's nine o'clock at night on a Sunday or Saturday.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. They needed to go. Yeah. You know, meaning me and kids at weddings are like denied. Yeah, I hate a damn child at a wedding. So I think it played out exactly how it should have. And everybody went nuts. They had a blast. They went down to the bar afterwards and they stayed open an extra hour in the resort, and then me and Saquon packed up, and that was kind of it. But we had a ball, man, and she had a blast. Like what were the songs that hit? Man, she she's like really into the new rap, like uh Key Glock, um uh Young Dolph. Young Dolph. She loves Young Dolph. Young Dolph is big. Um big Drake
Off The Record Rhythm Challenge
SPEAKER_06fan, Wheezy.
SPEAKER_02Any, any, any of that, like Waka Flocka Atlanta.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, that stuff. Coochie, coochie main.
SPEAKER_02I mean, like it was crazy.
SPEAKER_07It was, yeah. So did you play anything else other than hip-hop? No, not 930 to 11.
SPEAKER_01Maybe a few like EDM remixes, but not like Yeah, no pop, no throwback.
SPEAKER_06The thrills at Wiz Khalifa. That was the closer. Yeah. And then they did a private last stance to Morgan Wall and I Wow, what a change. Yeah, I know. Jeez. It was hip hop down, man.
SPEAKER_04Well, it's got 930 to 11.
SPEAKER_07When we went in.
SPEAKER_04And I think this week, well, it'll already be passed by the banger list of this wedding. Oh, yeah. Is gonna be in the Patreon. Yeah, if you're looking in. Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06In the Patreon. Patreon.com slash beyond the DJ Booth Podcast. The list of the highlights is in there. I had a doozy, bro. Oh boy.
SPEAKER_04Another TikTok bride. Influence heavy by the TikTok. Um, so first thing they wanted to do, efficient coming out to the Bulls theme song. Is he from Chicago? Like, what are we doing? Yeah. Then Groom comes out to still not a player, big pun.
SPEAKER_06Oh, um, old boy at my ceremony came out to um the biggest. The biggest, big X and Bull.
SPEAKER_04But it was such a like, and people are looking at me like, yeah, are you playing? Oh, I know, same. I was like, But then they got it because they know this guy. Right, right. So it was kind of funny. Yeah, same. Um, and then they wanted to do this thing, and I don't know where they got this from, but they wanted all the cocktail music
The Explicit Wedding Playlist Switch
SPEAKER_04to be 50s and 60s, all the dinner music to be 70s and 80s.
SPEAKER_06Wait older.
SPEAKER_04Ish. I mean, like 30s. No, no, no, 30s-ish. Interesting. Which I just thought, yeah, okay. I mean, I get it if you're trying to like make sure that you're not gonna play a lot of that during the dancing and that you're just trying to pay tribute to the crowd that would be liking this stuff. But it doesn't make me look great when every song's like Elvis and you know all the like just this weird stuff in the 50s and 60s that never moves off of that.
SPEAKER_06I really didn't like anything in the 50s, man. The more I think about it. Uh yeah, and I used to have to play a lot of it, you know, when people were uh from a different generation when I first started. Yeah. And I never liked the 50s, even my parents never really liked 50s music. The 60s when it turned the corner, I was about to pull a Harlow and just say it just got more it it that's when Motown popped. Yeah, and and that's when the music got good. And I don't that's all I'm gonna say about it. So when dinner just got better, things got a lot better in the 60s musically, anyway.
SPEAKER_04When dinner hit, I had to make the announcement though. I was like, hey, tonight's music, you might have noticed a theme or our cocktail.
SPEAKER_06Oh, yeah, you MC'd over it. Absolutely.
SPEAKER_04Said it, absolutely. And for dinner, we're gonna transition to another set of decades 70s and 80s. Hope you enjoy it. Good job. You know, kind of a thing. Good job. Uh, weird, this is the second time I've gotten one of these, and I don't know if this is gonna become a trend. Oh boy. Bride goes, hey, um, instead of us doing a welcome, we wrote a song. Uh so can you play this song for the welcome? And I'm and she sends it to me like the day before, of course, right? And I'm looking at it, I'm like, this is three minutes long. Three minute long song. And it's not her voice. So I was like, okay, maybe she's just a writer. I don't know. Then I see the in parentheses, Suno. So I'm like, oh, AI. Got it. I got another maid of honor who's doing a similar thing for her toast. She's like, I have a song I want to do instead of me doing the toast. Here's the song. I'm like, oh man, is this gonna become a thing where people think it's an easy out? But I was thinking of like, so I told the bride before when we were lining up for the grand entrance, I'm like, listen, I think you need to set up this welcome and not me just drop a song. Someone has to say something. Yeah, it's gonna be because you there was no context to it to like halfway through.
SPEAKER_06Well, even more so. Now you have to be hyper focused on the lyrics if there's no like lyric video to go with it on the screen. There was not. See that to me that would have made it go over better. Right. Remember like that screen that you did the other night?
SPEAKER_04So she goes, um, so she did so I so she agreed. Yeah, yeah. She goes, Hey, she teed it up. Yeah, she's like, Hey, I wrote this song. Um, we hope you enjoy it, and it's just our gift to you kind of a thing. So she's playing it. It is still kind of awkward because I'm like, I'm looking at it. Is it a ballad or like a ballad? Get the fuck out of here. No, it's like, and they go, and we came to destined. I'm like, oh my gosh. Anyways, but she's acting it out a little bit, like as the lyrics are coming along, like you know, this thing, and I'm just like, okay. Um, it didn't hit. I mean, she would she did it, whatever. Okay. Um, and then she wanted to do the shoe game. I'm like, I haven't done the shoe game. This is August weddings, bro. August in the South. This is the kind of stuff you get. So I said, hey, we need to flip this. We ain't doing this. I said, I don't think you should do a shoe game. I go, it's it's this kind of like we should flip it and do like bride and groom trivia if we're gonna do it. Because the other thing is, back to what we talked about on a bonus episode, the goal was to have a lot of dancing. That's what she told me. And she's given me all this stuff, which I'm like, this is taking away time for you. Eating up, eating up dance. So I said, the way that we can do this to speed it up is let me say during dinner, hey, something along the lines of like the bride and groom said that this is their closest family and friends they have here. They want to test your knowledge of how well you know them. Sure. I'm like, you got a 50% chance. Sure. I'm gonna ask a question to either bride or groom. Right, right. So while they're eating their steak, you know, I'm like basically going around like a guy with a roving microphone. I did like six or seven of them, and they kind of hit. It was fine. Uh, and then she saw this Instagram clip of them doing a photo dash. Have you ever done a photo dash?
SPEAKER_07Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_04I've never seen it before.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_04So basically it's their way to which I actually is not a bad idea.
SPEAKER_06No, it's not a terrible idea.
SPEAKER_04Because if they're gonna try to make their way around, yeah, it's basically they gotta do it in the length of a song if you haven't seen it before. That's right. So I played ballroom blitz. Okay. Uh I forgot who does it. It's like a 70s song, like a rock track. Ballroom Blitz, you know that's right. Oh, you know if you heard it. Anyways, so I said you have the length of the song to make your way. The problem was they hadn't thought about which direction they were gonna go. So as soon as I said, they thought it was a scavenger hunt, a bride and groom. So they go this way. I go, no, no, no. I had to back it back out. Go, you guys, you gotta do it together. Because our photographer doesn't know which way. She's got going like this. Like, no, I don't want to which way. I'm like, I gotta get on the same page. Yeah, let's cue it back up.
SPEAKER_06I think I did it. I've done it a few times. I for some reason it was hey, I think both times. And it was just like, all right, table one, boom. Yeah, both of them go. Everybody moved. I'm like, listen, guests, everybody, y'all are gonna move to one side of the table, bride and groom gonna come behind you, stand up, picture, boom, move. We got to do this in the length of the song. Right. Photo dash, go table one, bang, and then boom, boom, boom.
SPEAKER_04They had 23 tables. I don't think they factored that in. Right. The cardio, the cardio was how many times did you ever bring the song back? No, actually, they hit it all and they had time to spare. Song is about three minutes long, so that's the other. But when they got back, they were huffing and puffing. I'm like, we gotta need to take a break before we move into this next you know, segment or whatever. But the biggest thing about This wedding that I ran into was cold sparks. Wait, wait, wait, wait. You skipped over this garter removal thing. Oh, yeah. Sorry.
SPEAKER_07Garter removal.
SPEAKER_04I ain't seen that in 38 years. Yeah, they did the bouquet toss, garter, garter removal. And he was like, I want to surprise my bride. She didn't want any like things that she said that my aunt would shake her ass to. She wanted to like keep it kind of clean. So he was going to surprise her and did pony genuine for the removal. And I just remembered while those things are happening and just like why those things aren't a thing anymore. It is kind of cringy. Yeah. Classless. So I was like, oh God, I'm glad I this first one I've done probably five years.
SPEAKER_06Like Get Up Magic Micer and like get up on it and stuff.
SPEAKER_04He got in there. He was he was in there. He was on it. And she was embarrassed, but she was loving it, you know. Boom. And then she played the song that he wanted me to transition into was um 60 Minute Man. You know that song from the 60s? I wasn't familiar with it. I thought it was beach track.
SPEAKER_06That's why I know it's 60 Minute Man. I thought 60 Minutes.
SPEAKER_04I almost called up uh 60 second man. One minute man. One minute man. I won't that that uh RB track? Oh yeah, who was that? I can't remember the the RB artist, but I thought that's what they meant. And then I looked at it, I was like, no, 60 minute, not one minute, man. Anyways, I played that. Wow. And then we get into cold sparks. Now, remind me, you have cold sparks? Fuck no. Okay, that's my thing. I don't do them.
SPEAKER_06Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Especially in Florida because I'm flying in.
SPEAKER_06I'm like, I'm like, Cold Sparks can kiss my ass. Yeah. If you're if you're if you're watching this and you're a cold spark, kiss my ass.
SPEAKER_04So here's here's the problem I ran into. Bride goes, I say, hey, we don't offer them. We have another company that we partner with. Tried to make it sound like we know them, which we do. And I send them the business, right? Sure. I don't even take a cut. She goes, I don't want to go through them. I want to go through you. Oh boy. So I think no big deal. Call them up. Hey guys, got a cold spark. Bride's kind of wanting to go through us for it. I said, I'm just gonna market up a smidge just to like cover the cost. Sure. But are you available? Yes, we'll bring them in, everything. Okay, great. So, and they've done it at this venue. I've seen them do it at this venue. However, it's always been outside. We're in a ballroom. It's August, too hot, right? So I finish uh the ceremony. I'm going into cocktail hour. Cocktail hour is in the main ballroom. Guy goes, um, no, I'm sorry, let me back up. Because he's setting it up, he goes, Man, I got a problem. I I tested all four of these. I had four of them. One of them isn't working. He's like, I tested it 30 minutes before I left to make sure they were all working. He's like, I got my guy coming from the warehouse to bring it, letting you know it'll be here bringing another one. Bring another one. But I'm like, how do you not have an extra backup of one of these in your car? Then I finish the ceremony. Cocktail hour is in that room, and he goes, Hey, I have a little problem. He said, I tested it about four or five times. Four of them went great. But one of the times, it caught fire on the carpet. I had to mark it off with my foot. I'm like, first of all, I didn't think they were flammable. I'm like, they're flammable. I'm like, okay.
SPEAKER_06So what are we doing? Oh sorry, one second. I thought you said these were outdoor.
SPEAKER_04Oh no, this normally they're outdoor. They're normally outdoor at this venue. And he goes, I go, I know they've done them here in this room. Paul Pause for a second.
SPEAKER_06The other night, I went to a NASE meeting and Randy's telling me some story, and I'm I'm I'm eating like a little appetizer thing. And he's telling me a story, and we're standing in a cocktail round, and
TikTok Bride Requests And AI Welcome Song
SPEAKER_06I finished it eating, and I set the thing down on the table, and I'm like engaged with him like we are right now. And all of a sudden, the goddamn table is on fire. The napkin on top of my thing touched the candle while we're talking, and the table is on fire. Oh my god. So at first we thought it was funny, and I'm and I go, it's not blowing out. Then I go, the napkin soars up in the air, hits the floor. Now I'm like stomping on it, trying to put it out, but like I ruined the linen on the table. Oh my god. Yeah, it was on fire. That's crazy, bro. In the middle of a nace meeting. Oh my god. Anyway, okay.
SPEAKER_04So old boys burnt the carpet at this point. He's like, what do you want to do? Do you think it's worth the risk? He's like, it's four out of five, it's done well. But the big one. And I'm like, that's not good. You know, and I'm thinking they just paid for this, right? So I he's just the worker. He's not the owner of the company. I know the owner. I text him, I go, hey, in your professional opinion, is this worth the risk? Because I said, I can't set this building on fire. No good. You know? He goes, I wouldn't do it. He's like, I just wouldn't do it. He's like, I didn't know that they had carpet in there. He's like, it's not every carpet, but certain carpets can. And I apparently what the issue is, it's not the carpet, really. It's that the it can clump up, apparently. Yeah. And he the guy says, I ran it through a clean cycle, like it should be good. It was but there were a couple clumps that came out, and he's like, I just stepped on it and whatever. He's like, I wouldn't do it. So I said, So I told the owner, I said, listen, if we have to tell them this and we don't do it, we gotta give them a refund. He goes, Company policy. This wasn't the owner, this is the manager. Sorry. Manager goes, It's company policy. I can only give you 50% back. I go, wait a minute. I go, I didn't even mark this up. He goes, It's coming mom out of my pocket. Yeah. I go, it the product didn't work. Like, if I don't use it, I understand not getting all my money back. But I'm like, you want me to tell this bride? And I'm texting him this during this cocktail hour.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_04So then I'm like, you gotta make an exception here, bro. I go, this isn't on me. You know, I mean, this is your product, it's not working. So uh he goes, here's what I can do. He's like, would you be okay with if we just re because I think it was $2,000, I think is what it was. So he said, I'll give you everything back but four hundred dollars, which is our labor, into the the the packets, I don't know, and getting it all here and everything. I'm like, not great, but I said I'll take it for right now because I just need to get out of the situation. So I go to the bride. Go, hey, here's the situation. We're ready to do the grand entrance. I go, we've tested the cold sparks, everything's good except four out of the five times it was perfect. The fifth one, whatever that was, it caught it on fire. We mocked it out. I said, it's a possibility could happen. It could happen, may not. He goes, let's go for it. Like, okay. So a whole time I so I go back to my guy because hey, listen, you're on those two, I'm on those two. If I see anything, I'm stomping it out. And let's pray. Comes in, nothing happens. But they fire it off. They fire it off. That's good. Got me through it. But it goes back to me thinking to myself, I was like, never again am I ever gonna do book it for the bride. Yeah. The liability is too big. It is, and I don't want to have those conversations. I know, man. Because now you're putting me in a bad situation where now I gotta play the party with this hanging over my head, especially if it bombs, literally. Right. You know, I'm in a bad situation. So you I was gonna ask you this in general. Do you always sub it out or do they book it through you guys? Nope.
SPEAKER_06Nope. It's not because of that, right?
SPEAKER_04This is the one time I did that and it bit me in the ass.
SPEAKER_06Nope. It is it there's a guy named Butterworth here that's got some. Uh, there's a couple other guys. Uh Rick has some. Uh Harlem has some. I mean, there's there's guys here that have them.
SPEAKER_04The reality is And these were good ones, by the way. These weren't Chinese. These are it said on the machine Blizzard, so I felt like these were legit. Are they not? Okay, sorry. The only ones that are truly legit are. They are cold. Sparklar. Sparklar. Okay. Sparkular. Okay. So Blizzard, though, I mean, they're a legit company, though.
SPEAKER_06They are, but no. No, no on those. Interesting.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. But I mean, they weren't Chinese, I guess is my point. These weren't coming. Well, maybe they weren't. Anyways, there is that. But uh to add one more thing to this event, we we did use S Start again. Yeah. Nice. And I have a new feature. Which one do you use? I use the reviews. Have you used this? No. So we used the song request. Okay. We used the pictures, which took off again. Yep. Tremendous amount of people using it. Uploading. Yep. They just released a new feature called reviews. Okay. So basically what you can do is you can send to every instead of sending the gallery right away.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_04It sends this email that says, uh, did you enjoy your time? Rank it one to five. Ooh. And then would you refer us to family? Ooh. Or family and friends. Yeah. One to five. If they hit five, which is you can set the threshold for whatever you want. Amazing. Would you mind sharing this on and you can list the review spots? Oh. That's cool. If it doesn't hit five, let's say it hit four, then it won't send them those. Right, right. It's smart and it will say, what could is there something you can just you can design the question however you want, but I said if there's something we can improve, what would that be? Did people hit it? We only got fives. Oh, okay. So I don't know. Now, they never left review yet. Yeah. Okay. But the fact that it, I mean, these are guests. These are more than just the bride and groom. I think it's another way to capture reviews. 100%. It's even more valuable. So just another little, I don't even want to say a plug. I'm just telling you what I've my experience has been using S Tart. Shout out to S Tart. Crazy wedding, though, though. Uh, let's hit some music. Get out of this. Alright, as we're moving into fall, I'm gonna give you some fall tracks.
SPEAKER_06Can you turn me down just a little bit?
SPEAKER_04Fall tracks you need to have in your rotation. I'm not even gonna tell you this artist. I'm just gonna play the track and you let me know if you'd use this for dinner or for a cocktail.
SPEAKER_06Either. I know who it is.
unknownTell me.
SPEAKER_06It's Will Farrell's son. Will Farrell's son. Yep. This is so fucking fire. It's like the new Robin Thig. Yeah. I'll let it roll for a little bit. The chorus is really great. It's Robin Thake before he got canceled. What's his son's name? It's like Magnus Farrell or something.
SPEAKER_09Magnus Farrell?
SPEAKER_04This is gas. I play it for either one. Totally. I think you need to have a rotation. This is those ones that people will be like, what are you playing? What a voice. I saw an interview with him. His grandfather used to tour with the Righteous Brothers. Stop. That's crazy. And his mom's
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SPEAKER_04a singer. And his dad actually, you know, he did all the culps things on the SNL. And he could carry it too decently. Yeah, yeah. But a great album. Actually, I listened to a lot of the cuts off of it. All of them great. Really? And they're all different. They're not all like that. It's not like that. No, they're all over the place. So if you're not familiar with Magnus Farrell. Saquon, what say you?
SPEAKER_02I like it. It's called Asleep Tonight. Some of the other stuff. Yeah, it's not all like that, but you know, some of them is more like poppy.
SPEAKER_06Okay.
SPEAKER_02Okay. But he does have a good voice.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, he does. Great. We'll have a listener. Okay. Uh, cocktail track I'm going to give to you. Or Doors Open could be. I slow this down a bit. This is a party people's remix. Yeah, I love it. They just came back with a new album worth of remixes. Uh they're on fire. They're on fire. This is the song, and I don't think it's one that's used a lot. Breezen, George Benson. Yeah. Version. I love George Benson. And this is sped up. I would slow it down probably about 5%. I think it's a little too fast, but here you go. I feel like it keeps the integrity of it, but the bass is a little bit thickened up. Kind of keyboard bass, maybe. For cocktail hour outdoors. Or even doors open. I like it because it's instrumental too, for the most part. Oh, it is? This part. Ooh. Kind of flipped it a little bit. I love this. Tambourine. Yeah, those guys are good.
unknownRight.
SPEAKER_04Party Peoples goes crazy, yeah. Now, this one I wouldn't really touch normally. Uh, because I like the original so much. This is Walking on a Dream, uh, Empire of the Sun. This is the cover, though, by one of my favorite remixers, DeSopher or D Sopher. Yeah. I have some of his stuff. And Simon Ellis. It's a cool version. Kind of in a little bit more. See what you think. Walking on a dream. Not for a dance deck, but corporate. I've played this for corporate. Those dreams would work well early on. Doors open. Yeah. If they're in the EVM crowd. I like this. It sounds just like the guy. You sure it's not? It's I know it's not. I like that they kept the integrity. Yeah, they did. Right? Yeah. Good one. Oh, disco yeah. Anyway, I think you need to have that in your library. I like that. Send it to me. Uh, it'll be for Patreon? Possibly. Yeah. Check that bonus content.
SPEAKER_03Wink, wink.
SPEAKER_04This one's been crushing for me at my parties. This is uh You're a Party Animal. Girl. G Y A L by Charlie uh Black. Garden Killer. This is a this is the super cup, baby. Yeah, I mean dance hall, reggae, but it also works in Latin sets for me too. Okay. The beat. It's been crushing. I've been using that with that Sean Paul Chicago. Give it up to me. All of that. In that pocket. Dude, this works so good. You can go in from this into lean on. I mean, there's so many ways you can move it. And this song has been crushing. It's such a sing-along. I'm surprised that people know it as well as they do. I because I felt like it was kind of an underground track. I yeah, I don't know the record. Really? No. Okay. I even had like Indian. It feels very summer-ish. Very. Yeah. Yeah. One more. This is for dance sets, too. Uh, this is the uh Anthem Kings blend. Oh, I love them. But I actually did a twist to it. This is let's get it started. Black Eyed Peas over one more time. The problem with the Anthem Kings one, which I loved, they just left, they never switched it to one more time. And I feel like you were blue balling me. I was like, you gotta, you gotta edge edged you. You gotta be moving into one more time.
SPEAKER_06Did you know? Um I was at F-45 the other day and I almost fell over. You know, they they only play DJ mixes there. Yeah. Uh it's Fit Radio. Fit Radio, yeah. Fuse, Chan I, Stacy. Yeah, I'll hear um Dynamics. I forgot this, but did you do you remember when Let's Get It Started was was the original title? The R word? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. You told me that. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_06You remember that?
SPEAKER_01Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_06I was like, yeah, and I think that they did fly for a little bit. Yeah. I was like, using the R word is crazy. Like, even in whatever year that came out, was it was still not kosher. It's not kosher. No, that's a bad word.
SPEAKER_04It was just like, man, same word. Just kind of came out. Wow. I don't know. Kind of crazy. Yeah. Anyway. I did a flip to it. Okay. I did the one more time. It's not the R word, right? No. But this this actually hits. I like the way that this starts. See if you would use it in your dance sets. I think you should. It's my supercut.
SPEAKER_09Yeah.
SPEAKER_04I mean, you're flipping the night, maybe to some more housey stuff, right? Maybe an after party. Turn a corner. Then I added that to go right into it. Because it didn't have it. Let me get this. Short edit. Let me get it. Well, if you are a Patreon member, which I don't know if you are, but if you are, might be in the bonus content.
SPEAKER_07Patreon.com slash beyond the DJ Booth Podcast. Five tracks. One more time.
SPEAKER_04So I did a wedding in August. Brutal outside. Ceremony only. Still enough where I'm just sweating. So I got targeted. I don't know if the the Instagram cod the gods
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SPEAKER_04were looking at me. Twillery.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Makes a breathable suit. I know. I've seen it. And breathable shirts. Okay. So I ordered it. I'm like, let me just check it out. Wasn't crazy expensive. Three to four hundred bucks. Okay. I mean, for a suit, that's I would pay that.
SPEAKER_06That's totally reasonable. I was due for one. Pants and jacket.
SPEAKER_04Pants and jacket. Okay. And I'm going to show it to you for those that are on camera. Yep. And actually, I'll give you this part first. The jacket. Because I think that's the most. You can kind of see the mesh. I can, yeah. But I mean.
SPEAKER_03Wait, I thought you already rocked it. The tags. No, I haven't. I haven't yet. I haven't gotten it.
SPEAKER_04I did got it after it. But um I can see through it. Like it try it. Try it on. Try it on. Give us a fashion show. Let's just see if it I mean it's not gonna fit you, probably, but like, you know.
SPEAKER_08Try it on. I felt like it was a pretty good I mean. We'll see if it really is breathable.
SPEAKER_04Breathable. I mean it's hard to tell probably right now, but the material seems decent. I mean it's I mean you I can see what they're trying to do. Right. It's now they do this with the shirts too. I bought the shirt. The white shirt with the uh the collar feels nice. I'm gonna still use the collar stays. Yeah, I can't. I just I think the quality of the shirt's decent.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, it is. It feels like um yeah. I mean, this doesn't it it feels a little more like sport ish, yeah, like a little more stretchy, I guess. Yeah. So it's not gonna be like 100% cotton. I was just trying to see what's it, and it looks like they put a little kind of neck sweat guard in it. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. Because you know you're gonna be hot out there.
SPEAKER_04So, anyways, I'm gonna try it out in the fake fall season. Okay, see if this works. I'll report back. Report back. But I wanted to throw it out there as if you haven't seen it, it looks, I mean, do they have like colors? They have way different colors, yeah, all over the place. White, black, you know, navy. I'm I'm I'm wearing some wild shit lately. You know that. Yeah, I'm being I just wanted to keep it classy.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, keep it classy. What is that?
SPEAKER_04Gray? Gray, dark blue, yeah, charcoal. Charcoal. As they say. So uh anyway, 400 bucks-ish for this and the shirt.
SPEAKER_03Let us know how it goes with the Twilleries. Yeah. Uh let's hit the question and let's do it. Do it. Question of the day.
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SPEAKER_04Oh, Noveletta. Okay, novel letter. Why don't you read the name? Uh no, I think it's because it's a two-pager. Cat!
SPEAKER_06Oh, shoot. All right, you go ahead. How do you well are we gonna answer it in parts or just the whole thing? I think it's all one story. How do you handle custom song edits for special dances? For example, mashups or custom versions that a couple requests for a father dance, father-daughter dance, or a first dance. The follow-up question is this What if you share that custom edit in a reel and people start asking for a copy of the song to use at their own wedding? I created a custom edit for a client's wedding, I hired a content creator, told her the story behind the dance, asked her to capture the moment. After the wedding, I used the footage and had AI help me craft the story for a reel. It popped off. Facebook 1.4 million views, Instagram 1.1 million, TikTok 392,000. Now I'm getting messages from brides asking if they can have the edited version of the song for their own wedding. I probably have around 20 requests already. My first instinct is sure, happy to share it. I'm not looking to make money from it. Am I opening myself up to any copyright or licensing issues by distributing that edit even for free? I'm curious what you guys would do in this situation. Eric Hovey from Patreon. Shout out, Eric, for being a Patreon member. Uh, you actually responded to this. I I I I, you know, number one, we're not lawyers. So that was my first thing. I was like, I don't know about, you know, distributing something that's not yours. Do you remember what the edit was? Have you seen the videos? No, I haven't. I think it had something to do with school. It was like mine or something like that.
SPEAKER_04Brett Young, Country Track. I know that was the over something.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, okay. Anyway, it it's irrelevant. You had a really good response, so I'm gonna let you kind of respond to this because I think I probably would have just been like, sure, here it is. And you kind of took a different approach, I think.
SPEAKER_04Well, just to the legalities, again, we're not lawyers, but it's a gray area, yeah. At best. Yeah. And I would say whatever your threshold is for gray areas, right? Do what you want to do with it.
SPEAKER_06Like uh you with the cold sparks and stopping them out on the carpet.
SPEAKER_04I probably would not give it out just because that takes away from. From what your superpower is, clearly. Yep. Creating a moment for somebody. Yep. You say that was for one person for their event.
SPEAKER_06Yep.
SPEAKER_04You know, I'm available for hire a wedding. Yeah. And then try to create another moment for them. Absolutely. Rather than, I mean, what you're not even trying to make money from it. You're just literally just giving it away potentially, anyways. So I think you're actually making devaluing your superpower and creating a moment for somebody and making it feel like whatever.
SPEAKER_06And again, I yeah, I think the response is, you know, happy to do it for you and your fiance if you hire me. Right. Because clearly people have a tolerance as evidence, but somebody by somebody that's made a career out of traveling the country doing private events. Like five years ago, or let's let's say 10 years ago, I would have been like, yeah, they ain't gonna hire you, man. Just give it away. Right. Now, looking at somebody like Brian or Malik or any of these guys that travel all over the country and do private events, people will fly you. People that come here to our market and hey Joe, can I borrow some gear? I'm like, why are you in my market? Like, there is clearly a tolerance now for people to fall in love with a DJ or see something like this on Instagram or TikTok and bring you into play. Right. And again, that's a $10,000 ass versus a giveaway a song for free. So based on that, I changed my answer. You're right. It is your superpower, and and that would be my response accordingly. You know, not an asshole. Hey, this was really for Kelly and Bill's special day. I'm happy to make it for you guys if you if you hire me to to DJ your wedding.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_06But I don't know if that would work if you can say it may not, but uh, but let's say he did get he had 20 as of the time of writing the email. Maybe he got a hundred. You think ten people, I bet ten of the hundred would go, shit, I'm down. Yeah, we don't have a DJ yet. Or at least let's interview him.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06I I I don't know that, but I mean, yeah, I I think it could have led to shows if this guy, and I I think I know Eric well enough to know that he's the real deal.
SPEAKER_02And is it like what is the edit? Is it do they want him to uh like are people asking for this same song? The exact same the way he cut it for them. Okay, but again, but he could do it for other songs.
SPEAKER_06Like I I I feel like he made this one, and he and it will I don't remember exactly how the edit was. We should have probably pulled it up on here, but like it it it was,
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SPEAKER_06I don't even know that it was a mashup, it was just like a segue into like another song. Yeah, it was definitely a father-daughter dance, yeah. I think it was, and it definitely was a Brett Young original dance. And then I think it went into like Sweet Child. You might have been wrong. I don't know. Yeah. But my point is like it is a superpower, you know. It is, I wouldn't offer that as my service only. Right. Like I would I wouldn't be like I'm doing this for couples because again, you don't own the songs, you're right now you're distributing something. Right, right, right now I would have been like let's figure out what this is part of what I do as a DJ. Right.
SPEAKER_01You want this experience, yeah. Right.
SPEAKER_04This is part of what I do. Yeah, yeah. Anyway, hope that's thank our uh sponsor. You thank them, man. TJEventplanner.com. If you're looking for a CRM, check it out. We both use it. Uh it's been tried and true. Yep. So with that, we'll see you guys on the next episode.
SPEAKER_06Thanks, y'all. See ya.